Pros & Cons of Being in a relationship with him
Created by jerseyjewel on 02/03/2012
Weighing it out to see if it's worth the risk
1. He is a genius-literally.
2. He is good with money.
3. He has a great career.
4. We have the same goals for family.
5. He volunteered to stop stealing on his own.
6. He will go to church with me.
7. He loves to show me off.
8. He is altruistic.
9. He has close friends.
10. He is social.
11. He is an excellent communicator about feelings, etc.
12. We have great sexual chemistry.
13. He is affectionate.
14. He is liberal.
15. He is pursuing his career goals further-cares about that.
16. He is rational.
17. He likes to workout.
18. He likes the outdoors.
19. I really enjoy our time together.
20. We are very comfortable around each other-always have been.
21. He asks for help/takes care of himself with medical/health professionals.
22. He's attractive & cares about the way he looks.
23. He would never cheat.
24. He is a chameleon.
25. I am proud of him.
26. He wants to travel.
27. He is open-minded.
28. Eharmony & OkCupid think we are a good match.
29. He wants to stay in New Jersey.
30. He knows how to repair after arguments and does it well.
31. People that have met him and spent a lil time with him are impressed and approve.
32. He really loves my singing-a lot.
33. He is a strong person.
34. He will debate and issues and stick with his side.
35. He is conscientious.
36. He's never been drunk and will never be.
37. High standards for himself.
38. I love his smile.
39. He trusts me.
40. He brings things up that need to be talked about.
41. We have similar love languages.
42. We talk a lot; he likes to talk.
43. He is fighting for me tho i broke up w him.
44. He seems to be able to handle & understand the effects of what I've been through.
45. I know he would do almost anything for me.
46. I like being the artistic, easily excited one in our relationship.
47. He will spend hours talking about something I want to know.
48. He has changed his behavior the next day after I told him what I didn't like.
1. He used to steal.
2. He can come across as critical.
3. He looks at porn.
4. He doesn't plan romantic things for us.
5. He isn't verbally affectionate with me.
6. He doesn't go to church now.
7. He isn't musical.
8. He has mental health issues.
9. He is materialistic.
10. He lives with his mother.
11. He doesn't follow social norms.
12. His family.
13. I don't trust him completely.
14. He is tight with money.
15. He watches a lot of TV.
16. He has a lot of physical issues.
17. He flirts.
18. He is a chameleon.
19. He is impulsive.
20. He can be manipulative.
21. The give and take does not seem equal.
22. I have felt taken advantage of.
23. The way he talked to me about sexual stuff when we first started talking.
24. I had to ask him for exclusivity; he wouldn't have asked after 3 months.
25. He believes in other things besides Christ.
26. He will probably always be a little mysterious.
27. He doesn't take care of himself sleep wise.
28. He jokes/tickles a lot almost to seemingly to avoid intimacy.
29. I have lost a little respect for him because of his past.
30. He has a weaker faith than me.
31. I wonder sometimes if he feels he is missing out on greener pastures.
32. He says good things to other people about me but not those things to me.
33. He over analyzes gifts.
34. He still has schooling to go.
35. He spends much of his time on money--finding deals, etc.
36. Unmotivated to do certain things-like biking.
37. He doesn't make me feel safe; sometimes catches me right at the last minute.
38. I think living with him would be difficult.
39. He was somewhat dishonest in how he treated me about Brook though he went on a date himself.
40. The way he talks to his mom is not the best.
41. That I have to even do a list like this for him.
42. I've had thoughts a few times knowing he is not the person for me.
43. He doesn't seem like a big gentleman compared to other guys.
44. I feel like I might be settling.
45. We won't connect fully on a spiritual lvl.
46. He makes comments on about other women looking good.
47. He has more girl friends than guy friends.
48. He gets on my nerves sometimes.
49. He generally has an annoyed disposition.
50. He doesn't admit in the moment when he is wrong-maybe doesn't see it.
51. He is selfish.
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Emotional results
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